A Letter to Maybel

The Nicolas

Dear Maybel,

This is one moment that our family would somehow feel nostalgia.

The day has come for you to say goodbye. For our part, you have become close and dear to us, and at the very most, we have considered you as a member of the family, a part of our life. 

But then, people come and go as they say; and we could not really hold on to people, even how close they have been to our hearts—what is important rather, is to let go and wish the best for that person, no matter how hard it is to say goodbye.

Monching was barely months old when you came to the family. We were happy, excited, and felt eased. It was easy to get along with you and you cared for us, especially Monching. We always told you then that you’ll be a part of our family. We treated you as nice as we could, knowing that you’ll be caring for our family too, in return. 

We even enjoyed the very first meal you cooked and how you narrate stories about the place you came from during our brief talks. You said that life in Tineg- a part of the Cordillera, is as harsh as its terrains, the coldness is unforgiving during the coldest months, and the wind and rain washing away your tucked roof when the weather is not so friendly. We wondered how you survived despite of meagreness of life, which you always told...then on, we believed that you had a big heart with a big dream.

There were beautiful memories developed that paved a close relationship between you and our family and they will be cherished forever. Even if we lived a simple life, we tried our best to give you comfort for we knew how it felt to be away from your own family. There were times when we saw you crying and lonely, but then, we made sure that you’ll feel better later on. Your smile would be our joy because we always wanted you to be happy.

Now that you are leaving, you might not see us as emotional as you might be expecting, but deep in our hearts, we will surely miss you. We hope you’ll cherish all the days you were with us and not to forget the pieces of advice we imparted on you. You know how hard life is. And all the things we have showed you may have somehow inspired you as you go along. When you’ll have your own family, you’ll understand more life...it’s all about being happy and contented for what you have.

Thank you for the love and care you gave to our family. Thank you for treating Monching like your own little brother. Thank you for being a nice sister to your Ate She. Thank you for sharing your stories that inspired me more than you know. Thank you for the good times. 

Wherever you go, remember that once in your life, we have become a part of you.

Thank you and God bless you always.

Sincerely,

Kuya Anton, Ate She, and Monching

6 November 2010